02-15-04, 01:28 PM | ||
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there is also a tendency for some folks to become overly sensitive when their opinions are challenged or not totally accepted so a discussion can become an argument if either side reacts emotionally. The ideal goal of a discussion is to respect different opinions without being hurt if someone else's opinion differs. Barb S who tries to respectfully disagree but is not always successful and sometimes reacts emotionally myself but am getting better at it (I hope) |
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02-15-04, 01:49 PM | ||
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As has been pointed out before, there are many different opinions even among the "experts". Why a person latches on to one and not another could be an interesting study in itself. On another site Dr. Atkins is both loved and hated all on the same forum as is Dr. Phil. It's a smorgasboard (sp?) out there. So you have to take a little from here, a little from there and depending on your taste maybe you wind up with something to your liking. Nancy. |
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02-15-04, 05:39 PM | |
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LOL I certainly didn't think my post reflected a defensive stance, only one that attempted AGAIN to explain my position. However, if you two wish to consider it defensive because I don't agree that areobic is the only way, well c'est la vie.
I have no use for arguments about which plan is better, I tried to present my explanation to you in a way that describes how it benefited ME, not any one else. I have NO WISh to push anything on anyone and I was requesting the same consideration. The thread was started by someone who asked the question, I responded. I simply am pointing out that Dr. Connelly walks the talk, whereas I'm not so sure about Covert Baily. If that upset you, I'm sorry, but that's how I see it. Plus, there's a huge difference between losing weight and losing fat and that's where Dr. C's comments about walking come into play. Honestly Nancy, I don't care if you agree w/me or not, or you either Horsemom. You both love rebounding/aerobics? Great, I hope you both benefit from whatever it is you do. But please allow me to express myself as well without taking it personally. |
02-15-04, 05:48 PM | |
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I might also ask why is this considered to be defensive statement?
I'm 49 years old and I gave up killing myself on cardio, except for an occasional Taebo workout ] Do you think that because I was killing myself on cardio, I'm intimating that everyone else was and that its WRONG? No such thing was intimated NOR can this be construed as "Defensive" unless you were looking for it. If you can't read an opposing opinion w/out getting all huffy and attacking the person w/that opinion, especially someone as opinioned as I am, then maybe you should stay within the box and not ask questions about a different way if you have no intention of being open minded enough to consider that something else may work for someone besides yourself, especially if you're just looking for confirmation that cardio is the only way. Now I'm not being defensive, but I am angry at being blasted for no reason whatsoever other than presenting what I know personally, to be true. |
02-15-04, 08:32 PM | ||
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just an attempt to clarify
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I did not wish to consider your post reflected a defensive stance. (by the process of elimination, I believe when you used *two* you were implying Nancy as one and me as the second of the two, only cuz you mentioned me in the same post further down and nobody else). and since you asked, I do currently enjoy bouncing on the rebounder or Bosu in combination with AWT but dunno what my workout preferences will be a few months from now. Also, dunno why you seem to think I am disagreeing with you but just wanted to clarify that I was not seeking a disagreement and don't want it implied that I was. Barb S who is not taking anything personally and doesn't want it implied that I am and was just responding to a direct comment from Nancy cuz I have hurt Nancy in the past unintentionally as well |
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02-15-04, 09:23 PM | ||
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I never said cardio is the only way. Never! I did say I don't like lifting weights, but I also repeated Dr. Bailey's comment, which I agree with, that "weight lifters (who also do cardio) have the best of both worlds, because they burn fat while doing cardio as well as after weight lifting." How is it you overlooked that? I have tried to explain each of my comments, but I guess I'm just not making myself clear so I'll just end by saying I hope you feel better soon. Nancy |
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body rx, bone density, no cardio, scott connelly, weights only |
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