04-30-16, 08:07 AM | |
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I had several invitations to my wedding that I mailed but didn't get to their destination. My MIL actually called my DH and guilt tripped him! He called me and said "why didn't we invite my Mom????" I said "We did!" I was angry she actually thought she had not been invited and totally rolled my eyes.
I didn't get some responses to our invite, but just figured that was normal. His Mom was pretty drama, so I figured she misplaced it or something. After we were married, i was talking to a good friend of mine who commented she wish she had been invited. I did invite her!! It still bugs me. I thought she just didn't respond. Those are the only two that I know of, but it does happen! I wish my friend would have said something to me before our wedding, however if I were in her position, I probably wouldn't have said anything. Maybe next time you see them, just say "Happy Anniversary, I hear the big 50 year is coming up!" and see if they say anything like "are you coming?" There may be a reason you weren't invited, but it may also have been something else!
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04-30-16, 08:14 AM | ||
Join Date: Oct 2013
Location: NJ
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It's always awkward when these kinds of things happen. I honestly didn't care to go anyway, but there's just something about not being invited that is a bit hurtful. If that makes any sense! |
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04-30-16, 08:14 AM | ||
Join Date: Nov 2001
Location: USA
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04-30-16, 01:42 PM | ||
Join Date: Dec 2002
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04-30-16, 04:26 PM | |
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: I love that dirty water...
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We 'forgot' to invite one of my brothers to our rehearsal dinner. I say 'forgot' because it was my in-laws' event and they really should have done the inviting, but my FIL didn't think invitations were necessary and expected everyone to just figure it out or find out by word-of-mouth. I love my in-laws, but this irked me! People need to be invited! Anyway, my brother called me a few days before the wedding and asked in a very winsome way whether or not there were any pre-wedding events at which he would be expected! This things happen, and it's nice when people can just laugh it off!
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04-30-16, 05:57 PM | |
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Atlantic Canada
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Etiquette can be so tough sometimes. It looks like this problem has been more or less sorted, so perhaps I'll pose an anniversary etiquette question of my own:
My partner and I have been looking ahead for awhile now trying to figure out how we're going to handle our parents' 50th anniversaries. We want to throw a party, but here's the thing: my parents and his parents were married on the same day (pretty much simultaneously, on churches at opposite ends of the same block!). The most obvious, convenient solution is to throw them a party together. But they aren't friends, and our families are very different (partner's parents are extremely religious and quiet and serious and mine are extremely not religious, loud and love to dance and tell funny stories). So we just keep wondering how we'll handle it. Best case scenario their anniversary falls on a Sunday, so we throw a party for my (non-religious) parents actually on their anniversary, and for my partner's (Christian) parents the day before. Oy. |
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