04-29-16, 07:38 PM | |
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...And in an embarrassing situation similar to Dana's, my husband and I totally forgot to invite one of his first cousins to our wedding. No one ever mentioned it to us until well after the fact. I didn't know the man, but I was mortified, and I wondered why someone didn't speak up about it! Obviously they wouldn't ask me (they didn't know me), but I wish someone would have whispered something to my MIL, for instance. Since we had invited his brother and all his sisters, it ought to have been clear it was an oversight (and mail DOES get misdelivered), and not simply a matter of budget or some mysterious random dislike we had taken to this person. But no one ever did speak up, and to this day I'm sure we're talked about for it!
I realize that "why wasn't I invited" wasn't the thrust of your question here, and that shows what a lovely person you are! I certainly think wishing them a happy anniversary would be a wonderful gesture, if you're inclined to do so.
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