I think there is a natural progression of benign neglect.
When you first find a site like this you are so enthralled that there are others JUST LIKE YOU that you read every word, savor many, and just wallow in the knowledge that you are not alone.
Then you start to recognize certain threads and you pick and choose. Oh, this thread is going to turn into a Cathe flame war. Pop the popcorn, turn off the phone and let me get in my sweats! It is guilty pleasure time.
Then you see a thread that talks about TA's questionable business sense/tactics/ethics. Nope, not reading that. I can look at how my brother is running his life if that interested me.
Oh, wait, Zuzana was in porn? Yeah. Been there, done that
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And of course, there are threads about actual workouts, hard to believe but true. Oh, this is another Leslie thread. I
me some of Les and the girls. Click and read and just smile, knowing there will be some haters but mostly it is all about the Leslie love.
Oh, wait, this thread is about kettlebells. Hmmm, no, not clicking on that. Can't afford to be tempted by something that will ultimately, just a matter of time, slip from my hand on a TGU, crush my skull and generally ruin my day.
But then there are those surprise threads, you know, the one you ignore until you all of a sudden notice that there are 942 posts and 20,142 viewings and whoopee, there goes three hours of your life you will never get back and now it is time to do anything but work out.
Yeah, I think I know the syndrome, Betsy.
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