I come here because this forum is full of intelligent, kind, thoughtful, well spoken, open minded, generous spirited, patient, supportive, wise, sometimes weird (well, mostly me) and wonderful people. There are other good forums out there. There are other great forums out there. But as far as I'm concerned VF is the gold standard by which they are all measured. I'm proud to be a part of it, proud to continue to be a part of it and extraordinarily grateful to Wendy for creating it and the moderators for keeping it a fair and mature forum with an atmosphere of civility that is unequaled on the Internet. People tend to feel at home here and because of that, they treat it like their home. Many of us have come, over the years, to know others here in real life. It speaks volumes to me that VFers want to meet in person, continue to gather together in real life and form lasting, close, worthwhile personal relationships. I'm especially grateful for VF because it was here that I met people who have become my closest, dearest friends.
We've had fun times and rough times and confusing times here. We've had debates, celebrations, unbelievably funny moments, and sometimes hard patches when people weren't necessarily on their best behavior. That's because we are human beings and being so, imperfect. Even so, VF is a forum where even though we can have those moments we might regret, they are few and far between and over soon. The cool heads and warm hearts always conquer in the end. I wouldn't trade my experiences here for the world.
So, here's to Wendy, here's to the moderators and here's to ALL of us. I'm proud to know you.